johnmall5 Posted May 22, 2013 Author Share Posted May 22, 2013 is your name on the kids birth certificates? if not apply to get a parental responsibilty order for them .(this could take sometime). meanwhile bite your tongue and try and be reasonable with her (this could go against the grain)with you but be patient. why people use kids as weapons is beyond me good luck Yes, my name is on the birth certificates. As for biting my tongue, I have been doing so for nearly 3 years. I have always been reasonable and always done what she has asked. I have never ever sent her an abusive text nor been verbally abusive towards her. I have always kept my dignity. She even changed the boys school without even telling me. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
knots Posted May 22, 2013 Share Posted May 22, 2013 Does your ex want to take your boys away later in the year if so you can send a letter to the passport control to stop them taking them,hope this makes sense Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ricgem2002 Posted May 22, 2013 Share Posted May 22, 2013 Yes, my name is on the birth certificates. As for biting my tongue, I have been doing so for nearly 3 years. I have always been reasonable and always done what she has asked. I have never ever sent her an abusive text nor been verbally abusive towards her. I have always kept my dignity. She even changed the boys school without even telling me. you may allready have parental responsiblity then. i know how you feel mate ive had this still going on now over 10 years. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
johnmall5 Posted May 22, 2013 Author Share Posted May 22, 2013 Does your ex want to take your boys away later in the year if so you can send a letter to the passport control to stop them taking them,hope this makes sense My ex and her partner will not be taking the boys on holiday this year because they 'cannot afford it'. BUT, while I was driving to a fishing lake with my youngest son for the first time with him, he said to me : ' Dad, that's were Mum and (name) shop' 'Where?" I replied 'Bargain Booze' 'Oh....right' Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
knots Posted May 22, 2013 Share Posted May 22, 2013 So next year when they want to go abroad and can't take them it will make you feel alot better, but it won't help you for this year, unless she is spending all her money on booze which could mean she isn't capable to look after the boy Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jessica23 Posted May 22, 2013 Share Posted May 22, 2013 Oh, come on. I do a lot of shopping in Bargain Booze because it's my nearest corner shop! Sells milk and bread and loo roll as well as booze and fags... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
knots Posted May 22, 2013 Share Posted May 22, 2013 She may not be drinking to much but if she is then should she have full custody Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
johnmall5 Posted May 22, 2013 Author Share Posted May 22, 2013 Oh, come on. I do a lot of shopping in Bargain Booze because it's my nearest corner shop! Sells milk and bread and loo roll as well as booze and fags... Its not their nearest shop. Their nearest shop is about 100 yards away. Both of my boys have made remarks on their Mum and (name) on their drinking. About 18 months ago my youngest son told me he got a bruise on his thigh from tripping up from a can of beer - on Mums bedroom floor!. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jessica23 Posted May 22, 2013 Share Posted May 22, 2013 If you've got concerns about her parenting you need to see a solicitor or get in touch with social services, then. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Pixie824 Posted May 22, 2013 Share Posted May 22, 2013 If you've got concerns about her parenting you need to see a solicitor or get in touch with social services, then. Yes, sounds like this is much deeper than just the holiday. Go to your local CAB and ask them for advice, they may be able to help you out with the passport situation. And keep proof of all the abuse you get, you never know when you might need it. Good luck Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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