Scozzie Posted August 4, 2013 Share Posted August 4, 2013 Oh, deary me. Don't tell her. Never TELL her Chicks dig getting wooed. There is nothing greater than having butterflies that come with being wooed. A definite butterfly killer is a clumsy and ill-timed 'I like you' Don't push it, don't force it- just go with the flow and if something happens, it will. Btw- the age thing DOES matter- but only if you are younger than 27. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Chris_Sleeps Posted August 4, 2013 Share Posted August 4, 2013 Don't tell her. Never TELL her Chicks dig getting wooed. Why do people give absolute statements? You don't know what all women like. It's a huge generalisation. I've never wooed anyone in my life. I wouldn't know how to woo. I've had to rely on my natural charm and good looks. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Scozzie Posted August 4, 2013 Share Posted August 4, 2013 Why do people give absolute statements? You don't know what all women like. It's a huge generalisation. I've never wooed anyone in my life. I wouldn't know how to woo. I've had to rely on my natural charm and good looks. If you want a tip on how to woo, there are millions upon millions of books, rom com movies, tv shows, magazines that could help you out. Ooh, and by the way, not all us girls find 'grab your coat, you've pulled' charming. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Chris_Sleeps Posted August 4, 2013 Share Posted August 4, 2013 I'm in the 'treat em mean keep em keen' school.Then the 'beg em for sex' school. Romance. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
skinz Posted August 4, 2013 Share Posted August 4, 2013 I'm in the 'treat em mean keep em keen' school.Then the 'beg em for sex' school. Romance. Should that fail there's always Rohypnol. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
buck Posted August 4, 2013 Share Posted August 4, 2013 My wife is 14 years younger than I. We met after terrible tragedy on both our lives. Mine was after my first wife died in a car crash, hers when her husband died of a heart attack. We have now been married 33 years and are very happy with each other. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dear Forum... Posted August 5, 2013 Author Share Posted August 5, 2013 Thanks all, She's almost 20, and I turned 31 this year... we really do get on well, and when she's not around I really feel like I want her to be here, and can't wait for the next time she visits, or the next time I get to see her... I don't think it would complicate the friendship from her point of view, but I know myself, and know how i'd feel after, if things didn't go well. I think I have decided i'm going to say something, but approach from a hypothetical sort of angle to gauge a possible reaction.. Or maybe i'm overthinking things? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ghostrider Posted August 5, 2013 Share Posted August 5, 2013 Thanks all, She's almost 20, and I turned 31 this year... we really do get on well, and when she's not around I really feel like I want her to be here, and can't wait for the next time she visits, or the next time I get to see her... I don't think it would complicate the friendship from her point of view, but I know myself, and know how i'd feel after, if things didn't go well. I think I have decided i'm going to say something, but approach from a hypothetical sort of angle to gauge a possible reaction.. Or maybe i'm overthinking things? Only one way to find out... 3 years ago, I met someone who was out on her 18th birthday (I was nearly 42 at the time) We started seeing each other, and after 2 years we got married. 2 months after the wedding, I found out she was having an affair with an OLDER man It hurts to this day, however the other bloke has found out shes pregnant and theres a VERY high probability the child isnt his Must admit, karma is a wonderful thing But dont let this put you off, thats just MY experience - if you dont try, you will never know. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
hyper Posted August 5, 2013 Share Posted August 5, 2013 Thanks all, She's almost 20, and I turned 31 this year... my view is that you may both hit it off, but to her that's half as old again and she may get to 22, 23 ,24 etc and suddenly want to be with someone her age - music, night clubs etc. Plus you might want to settle down and think about careers, babies, she might still want to good life. And you might get a hard time from her family. I'm not saying it won't or can't work, I just reckon the odds aren't good for a long termer. If you're just looking for a fling or a shortish term thing, then go for it. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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