bimbleinn Posted September 26, 2013 Share Posted September 26, 2013 My teenage children are in the very fortunate position of having just started full time jobs - a 16-year-old on an apprenticeship earning just over £500 a month, and an 18-year-old with net pay of just under £1000. Their first paydays are today. However, until now I have been able to get child tax credits and child benefit because of them being in full time education. This has obviously stopped and I will need to take board off them. I remember when I lived with my parents I usually paid around a third of my wages to my mum, but talking to other people this seemed a bit steep!! What do others do? I was thinking around 20 percent of their pay after taking off things like travel costs. Do you think this is fair? Advice please... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
psynuk Posted September 26, 2013 Share Posted September 26, 2013 Depends what your providing? If your charging them they're not kids they're customers.. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Maxtor Posted September 26, 2013 Share Posted September 26, 2013 My teenage children are in the very fortunate position of having just started full time jobs - a 16-year-old on an apprenticeship earning just over £500 a month, and an 18-year-old with net pay of just under £1000. Their first paydays are today. However, until now I have been able to get child tax credits and child benefit because of them being in full time education. This has obviously stopped and I will need to take board off them. I remember when I lived with my parents I usually paid around a third of my wages to my mum, but talking to other people this seemed a bit steep!! What do others do? I was thinking around 20 percent of their pay after taking off things like travel costs. Do you think this is fair? Advice please... The kids didnt ask to be born. You're the parent so provide for them. If they work and earn then thats great, make them start saving for a place of their own but to take board off them just because the CTC and CB seems wrong imo. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Obelix Posted September 26, 2013 Share Posted September 26, 2013 My mother snaffled a half of my pay off me for full board. When I finally left home after a few years I got a fairly large wodge of it back as a deposit booster for my first house - she'd saved what wasn't needed to cover food, heat etc and stuck it in the bank for me. I'd personally sit down and deduct what they need for transport to work, clothing and tooling if needed and then snaffle half of what's left and do the same... Other people I knew said that their parents just took a third and they seemed quite happy with that as well so I don;t think you are going too high. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bimbleinn Posted September 26, 2013 Author Share Posted September 26, 2013 I'm providing them with what I've provided them with all their lives!! Bed, board, food, packed lunches, laundry etc. The only thing I won't be providing them with now is new clothes & shoes - they will buy their own. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
nikki-red Posted September 26, 2013 Share Posted September 26, 2013 Im a single parent and my 16 yo has just started an apprenticeship. I sat down and worked out how much worse off I was going to be with the drop in maintenance, child benefit and tax credits. We decided hed give me 20% of his wage (after NI and his pension payment) plus an extra £15 a week as for the time being Im still paying his direct debits (phone, gym and cinema card) Everyones situations different tho, you need to work out whats suitable for all of you. Well done to both your kids by the way Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Daven Posted September 26, 2013 Share Posted September 26, 2013 A third of their wage is fair. For this I guess they will get their meals bought and cooked, their washing and ironing done for them and they will be kept warm and clean. Work out how much of their wage would be spent on rent, food and bills if they moved out - a third of their wage for board is very reasonable. It's a hard world out there and the sooner they realise how much things cost the better really. Regards. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
angel22 Posted September 26, 2013 Share Posted September 26, 2013 When I lived with my parents, I gave my mum £30 a week. This was only two years ago. My brother still lives with my parents, he earns about £240 a week and pays my mum £40. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
psynuk Posted September 26, 2013 Share Posted September 26, 2013 this is a good idea, "My mother snaffled a half of my pay off me for full board. When I finally left home after a few years I got a fairly large wodge of it back as a deposit booster for my first house - she'd saved what wasn't needed to cover food, heat etc and stuck it in the bank for me." you could even offer it up in advance. If they save x amount of their wages each month then you'll... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
geared Posted September 26, 2013 Share Posted September 26, 2013 10-15% after travel expenses? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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