lipschitz Posted December 10, 2013 Share Posted December 10, 2013 Why is there any stigma attached to it at all? The guy could just be the type to not compromise in a relationship and do what he wants to do when he wants to do it. Or maybe he has his own reasons for staying single. After the marriage I had I know for a fact I will remain single for the foreseeable future. People can always assume the sexual weido scenario. I think that says more about them than the person they are labelling. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cressida Posted December 10, 2013 Share Posted December 10, 2013 Maybe he can't afford to get married or doesn't want children Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
alchresearch Posted December 10, 2013 Share Posted December 10, 2013 When you think about it 1) Man 40, worked in various IT Departments since leaving school and thats it or 2) Man 40, been to prison many times, fathered many kids as a teen, however has now turned his life around and is remoresfull Who is the most impressive at a Speed Dating Event? Would either go to a speed dating event though? Person 1 would most likely use match.com. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CottonTop Posted December 10, 2013 Share Posted December 10, 2013 No need to lie about things. Just be honest about why you're still single at 40. As others have said, if something like that bothers someone, then they aren't worth your time and effort anyway. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Gazza58 Posted December 10, 2013 Share Posted December 10, 2013 A lot of people just have dull boring ( to other people) lives. These days at 30 seemingly you have to have travelled, have a cool job, have a couple of interesting hobbies, like cool music and be into interesting foods. Wind back 30 years and it would be enough to have a job in a factory, be into ELO, sunday dinners, sunday league football and tinkering with old cars at the weekend. No girls are going to like that now. Dam,thats where im going wrong then. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Robbie Loving Posted December 10, 2013 Share Posted December 10, 2013 If you're willing to lie about going to prison, why not just lie about being married instead? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
geared Posted December 10, 2013 Share Posted December 10, 2013 If you're willing to lie about going to prison, why not just lie about being married instead? He's trying to pick up a bird??? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bazza80 Posted December 10, 2013 Author Share Posted December 10, 2013 He's trying to pick up a bird??? But if your married then the sort of woman who wants some hanky panky (with no ties) is going to be attracted to this type of man. Going to prison is also a good selling point Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
geared Posted December 10, 2013 Share Posted December 10, 2013 You might have been watching too much pornography, I don't think every woman is going to swoon in front of a married ex-con. They'd probably just think he's a dirt-bag and move on. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
999tigger Posted December 10, 2013 Share Posted December 10, 2013 But if your married then the sort of woman who wants some hanky panky (with no ties) is going to be attracted to this type of man. Going to prison is also a good selling point Oh get off this is as silly as the tram being for the middle class thread. If you have to lie then you have some self esteem problems. Going to prison doesnt make you cool or more interesting. Its a bit of a hard sell if its as a sex offender or domestic violence. Staying single might well be a persons choice. Better single and happy than miserable and in a couple. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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