moimoi Posted February 24, 2004 Share Posted February 24, 2004 hi i really need some advice - i girl chatted me up the other night and asked me out - i said yes and we arranged to meet on saturday we went out saturday night and had a really good time - anyhow i went back hers and we had s*x when we were drunk and again in the morning when sober - anyhow after the second time she turned away from me and when i asked her what was wrong she said she felt awkward - she then got up and when i asked her why she felt bad she said because of her x who had been texting her on saturday night - she then drove me home they had finished a while ago - she finished with him but he is still into her - actually she was a bit 'cold' with me all morning before we had s*x for the 2nd time anyhow, she sent me a text later on the sunday saying thanks for a good time - i replied saying i had a good time too - my question is - what do i do now? i want to see her again as i really like her but i'm so confused - should i text her again and ask her out for a drink or does it sound like she wants rid of me - is she on the re-bound?? she finished with him and insisted that she definately doen't want to go out with him again - i do believe that actually but why was she so cold then had s*x with me and then cold again and then why bother sending me a text later in the day to say thanks for a 'really good night' and i know that she fancies - fancied me *confused* :0( Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DaBouncer Posted February 24, 2004 Share Posted February 24, 2004 Leave it as a one nights stand! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sammy Posted February 24, 2004 Share Posted February 24, 2004 wot i suggest is: u leave it up to her! then wen she does text/ring u, you will feel wanted! if u get wot i mean. she will contact you i am sure! so hang on in there luv! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
moimoi Posted February 24, 2004 Author Share Posted February 24, 2004 Originally posted by DaBouncer Leave it as a one nights stand! well yea maybe i should but it's rare i meet someone i wanna be with - am bored of randoms you think i should leave it then sammy?? and wait for her thing is she was really assertive - she asked me out - she arranged to meet on saturday - all down to her - maybe she doesn't think i'm that bothered and my 'reputation' preceeds me, reputation based on a throwaway comment by someone by the way i do want her to know i like her - maybe that put her off that i didn't seem THAT bothered - but i'm a bloke - that's what we do Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SilentStatic Posted February 24, 2004 Share Posted February 24, 2004 You know the girl a lot better than us - do whatever you think's best. If it turns out to be a bad decision - well you'll know for the next time (PS - beware of pyscho exes) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
moimoi Posted February 24, 2004 Author Share Posted February 24, 2004 he is a psycho apparently! but that's ok i'm 'ard! :0) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DaBouncer Posted February 24, 2004 Share Posted February 24, 2004 Originally posted by moimoi he is a psycho apparently! but that's ok i'm 'ard! :0) LOL...... can't beat a bit of modesty young man Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
GazB Posted February 24, 2004 Share Posted February 24, 2004 Just send her a short, non-clingy, non-whining text letting her know you're interested and then do nothing, let her come to you. "Hi <insert her name>, Hope you're ok. Just letting you know I enjoyed it at the weekend and would love to do it again sometime. Let me know if you fancy it. <insert your name>. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
moimoi Posted February 24, 2004 Author Share Posted February 24, 2004 GazB that's actually exactly what i was thinking of doing!!!!!! think i just needed someone to confirm that thanks mate! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sammy Posted February 24, 2004 Share Posted February 24, 2004 yeah u shud send her a text like that or exactly like that! (wot gazb wrote) u either leave it up to her because u sed she is assertive or u take the lead and let her know u are there if she wants u! well thats all have to offer! xx Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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