angel22 Posted June 19, 2014 Share Posted June 19, 2014 If her being nice to you upsets or worries you, the next time you go in there, just let her know that think she is your 'servant'! She'll soon stop the pleasantries! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cuttsie Posted June 19, 2014 Share Posted June 19, 2014 If her being nice to you upsets or worries you, the next time you go in there, just let her know that think she is your 'servant'! She'll soon stop the pleasantries! Its a winde up , he's pulling a plonker. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Halibut Posted June 19, 2014 Share Posted June 19, 2014 I’ve been going to a café on my lunch breaks from work at around midday most days (Monday-Friday). I’ve been working there (in an office nearby) for about a year and it’s going well. Anyway, at first when I started going to the café the café servants didn’t know who I was. I was basically a newcomer of their café so still a bit of an alien concept to them all I guess. Anyway, I kept going there to buy lunch (e.g. jacket potato with cold-slaw, or keesh lorraine for examples). After maybe a few months she started even saying “hi” and “hello” to me when I came to the counter. It was like recognition at last! The café servant knew my face and greeted me like I was now in the inner circle thing of regulars. I felt welcome after all these months and I looked forward to going to my café now where all the servants knew me sort of (didn’t know my name obviously! At least I hope not LOL!!!). Thing is, one of the servants has now tried to take our relationship to the next level. She said about the weekend today and this is what she said – “Anything nice for the weekend?”. At first I was shocked! I thought does she mean do I want to order any of her food for the weekend? So I said “I’ve got some food at home thanks”. But then she did clarify and said “Are you doing anything nice?”. OK, so what I want to know is this – what is going to happen? I’ve moved from being an absolute nobody to being a welcome face to being her friend now. Where do we go from here? Will I be expected to do certain things now for example find out her birthday and buy here present? It’s nice of course but the lines are so so blurred now. Where do I stand? You'll remain single for the rest of your life is my bet. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ohmyword Posted June 19, 2014 Author Share Posted June 19, 2014 You'll remain single for the rest of your life is my bet. Aah no actually because I actually had a girlfriend so that's snided you out Haliburt. As for the other people what have given helpful advice then really I thank you. Yeah, maybe the bird in question has just gotten nicer as a person in the past year. I'm not very good at that whole being social thing but some of those early answers has helped me. On tomorrow I'm going to do that gay banter thing with the servant first. World Cup is a good thing to talk about at the moment. Hey lady! Great match last night. Just something to say you know? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Halibut Posted June 19, 2014 Share Posted June 19, 2014 Aah no actually because I actually had a girlfriend so that's snided you out Haliburt. Did you pay her? As for the other people what have given helpful advice then really I thank you. Yeah, maybe the bird in question has just gotten nicer as a person in the past year. I'm not very good at that whole being social thing but some of those early answers has helped me. On tomorrow I'm going to do that gay banter thing with the servant first. World Cup is a good thing to talk about at the moment. Hey lady! Great match last night. Just something to say you know? Right on the money. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ohmyword Posted June 19, 2014 Author Share Posted June 19, 2014 Did you pay her? Right on the money. Thanks man. Glad you see it my way. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Andy Posted June 20, 2014 Share Posted June 20, 2014 On tomorrow I'm going to do that gay banter thing with the servant first. World Cup is a good thing to talk about at the moment. Hey lady! Great match last night. Is she Uruguayan? ---------- Post added 20-06-2014 at 06:58 ---------- Is this the same cafe that you were moaning about recently? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
davyboy Posted June 20, 2014 Share Posted June 20, 2014 Aah no actually because I actually had a girlfriend so that's snided you out Haliburt. As for the other people what have given helpful advice then really I thank you. Yeah, maybe the bird in question has just gotten nicer as a person in the past year. I'm not very good at that whole being social thing but some of those early answers has helped me. On tomorrow I'm going to do that gay banter thing with the servant first. World Cup is a good thing to talk about at the moment. Hey lady! Great match last night. Just something to say you know? Nice one. That should kill any chance of romance stone dead. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Chazndave Posted June 20, 2014 Share Posted June 20, 2014 Its quiche Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mister M Posted June 20, 2014 Share Posted June 20, 2014 Its quiche & his spelling of Coleslaw as 'Cold-Slaw' reminds me of herpes Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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