Waldo Posted December 6, 2014 Share Posted December 6, 2014 You tell your wife when she can or can't go out? I think (and correct me if I'm wrong Mr Fisk) the answer is "yes, when it's the middle of the night, and she's intent on going somewhere that would put her in danger". Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Member Posted December 6, 2014 Share Posted December 6, 2014 You tell your wife when she can or can't go out? :hihi: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted December 6, 2014 Share Posted December 6, 2014 You tell your wife when she can or can't go out? You seem to have trouble understanding the words " I wouldn't let my wife go out at that time".. ---------- Post added 06-12-2014 at 20:47 ---------- I think (and correct me if I'm wrong Mr Fisk) the answer is "yes, when it's the middle of the night, and she's intent on going somewhere that would put her in danger". Yes Waldo- I think we share the same common sense:) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
RootsBooster Posted December 7, 2014 Share Posted December 7, 2014 (edited) You seem to have trouble understanding the words " I wouldn't let my wife go out at that time".. I think I understood them pretty clearly, exactly how you wrote them, that's why I asked if you tell your wife when she can or can't go out. I'll rephrase it, do you tell your wife when she can't go out? ---------- Post added 07-12-2014 at 16:45 ---------- I think (and correct me if I'm wrong Mr Fisk) the answer is "yes, when it's the middle of the night, and she's intent on going somewhere that would put her in danger". My wife works all kinds of shifts and often has to go through places which could be dangerous (near the hospitals). I wouldn't dream of telling her that she can't go out at that time. EDIT: Not only that, I wouldn't dream of telling her ANYTHING she can't do. I'm not in charge of her will. Edited December 7, 2014 by RootsBooster Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
charmer Posted December 7, 2014 Share Posted December 7, 2014 You seem to have trouble understanding the words " I wouldn't let my wife go out at that time".. ---------- Post added 06-12-2014 at 20:47 ---------- Yes Waldo- I think we share the same common sense:) I think he understood them perfectly well, perhaps he was as shocked as I am by them. You would actually refuse to let her leave the house? How would you stop her if she wanted to go out? Violence? Hide her keys? I'm shocked that this kind of attitude still exists. I wouldn't dream of telling my lady what she can and can't do. You are aware that statistically you are far more likely to be the victim of violent crime than her? So, now you know that surely it is common sense for her not to let you out? Or will that not work because you are a man and you tell her what to do. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
landlordshef Posted December 7, 2014 Share Posted December 7, 2014 I think he understood them perfectly well, perhaps he was as shocked as I am by them. You would actually refuse to let her leave the house? How would you stop her if she wanted to go out? Violence? Hide her keys? I'm shocked that this kind of attitude still exists. I wouldn't dream of telling my lady what she can and can't do. You are aware that statistically you are far more likely to be the victim of violent crime than her? So, now you know that surely it is common sense for her not to let you out? Or will that not work because you are a man and you tell her what to do. Just tells everyone who wears the trousers in your house hold dont it. There must be a good reason for her to go out. then i would consider if it is safe, if not i would go with her Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted December 7, 2014 Share Posted December 7, 2014 Oh so now folks on SF want to dictate how one should run their household and family.. My wife expects me to protect her and the kids we have, thankfully she is also one who would think twice about being out late- and if she had to go somewhere, knows her safety would be priority. So do me a favour Charmer/RB- don't try to push your views on to others- i have a fantastic wife who I have been married to 20 years next year, who has given me 3 lovely kids. She for one isn't the type to be irresponsible by being out at night in to the early hours. For her, a night out with me at a nice restaurant and home by 9pm on a Friday or Saturday (with the kids at the in laws) is as good for her as it is for me. She does ask me before she wants to do something herself as it is called respect- some marriages still have it.. and I tell her what I am doing (which isn't alot as my life revolves around my work and family). Adious. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Waldo Posted December 7, 2014 Share Posted December 7, 2014 I nearly had a wife... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
RootsBooster Posted December 7, 2014 Share Posted December 7, 2014 So do me a favour Charmer/RB- don't try to push your views on to others Sorry? Which views have I tried to "push" on you or others? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
johnnyeng Posted December 7, 2014 Share Posted December 7, 2014 No women are never safe I think we need to take personal alarms with us Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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