jane91 Posted January 30, 2015 Share Posted January 30, 2015 My hubby has always had the same routine since we met, Finish work got to the pub, come home, eat and sleep I used to go with him but now it doesnt interest me and hasnt for a few years. I want "us" to work i think but im not happy with him drinking and not coming home first. He doesnt stop me from doing anything i want to do. Am i being unfair by asking him to change? Should i just call it quits if im not happy? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Anna B Posted January 30, 2015 Share Posted January 30, 2015 Can I ask roughly how long you have been married? I ask because his seems to be a rather old fashioned attitude. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
vwkittie Posted January 30, 2015 Share Posted January 30, 2015 Getting a divorce over visiting the pub after work does seem pretty extreme but then I wouldn't want my other half to go out without me 5 days a week (and I certainly wouldn't do that to him!) Have you talked to him about it and how it makes you feel, if so what did he say? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jane91 Posted January 30, 2015 Author Share Posted January 30, 2015 Ive been married 6yrs but together 16yrs, hes 57 im 42, he is quite old in his attitude. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
skinz Posted January 30, 2015 Share Posted January 30, 2015 Can I ask roughly how long you have been married? I ask because his seems to be a rather old fashioned attitude. I think the thread is an extension of the OP's others.. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jane91 Posted January 30, 2015 Author Share Posted January 30, 2015 We do sit down and talk about it, last friday we had the conversation and he said we were drifting apart and each time we talked we got further apart he wants me to go to the Working mens clubs with him but it doesnt appeal to me were living together but seperately ---------- Post added 30-01-2015 at 12:23 ---------- ive been going round and round in circles for years Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Isabelle Posted January 30, 2015 Share Posted January 30, 2015 What happened to the man in this thread? http://www.sheffieldforum.co.uk/showthread.php?t=1366979 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jane91 Posted January 30, 2015 Author Share Posted January 30, 2015 Im not professing to be an angel Please reply to this thread not others Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
skinz Posted January 30, 2015 Share Posted January 30, 2015 It's all very confusing.... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
vwkittie Posted January 30, 2015 Share Posted January 30, 2015 So let me get this straight - you've been seeing someone else, you don't like doing the same things, and he doesn't even want to see you after work (my other half can't wait to see me, and I can't wait to see him, as soon as possible after 9 hours apart and that's how it should be most of the time, imo). Sounds like a bit of a waste of time and you may as well call it quits, move on and you can both find lives that make you happy. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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