Ghostrider Posted February 16, 2015 Share Posted February 16, 2015 Never read any of the books & certainly not interested in the film, just common sense tells me all may be not well in the bedroom department It seems like NOTHING is going on in the bedroom department Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
skinz Posted February 16, 2015 Share Posted February 16, 2015 It seems like NOTHING is going on in the bedroom department Lucky girl.. Could be worse though, could be Hockley. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ubermaus Posted February 17, 2015 Share Posted February 17, 2015 Ur a pussy. Almost as much of a pussy as skinz. ---------- Post added 17-02-2015 at 21:19 ---------- Hockley is a legend. Same as me ---------- Post added 17-02-2015 at 21:24 ---------- Alpha dogs stick together. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
El Cid Posted March 15, 2015 Author Share Posted March 15, 2015 It seems like NOTHING is going on in the bedroom department Just an update, I tried to discuss the issue a couple of times, and her response was that all was ok as it was, and discussing it a number of times was doing her head in. She was quite happy meeting 2/3 times a week to chat and hold hands, I was not. We have always chatted, most days, via messages, I went silent over a long weekend, and now she has gone almost silent for the past week +. So I guess we are finished Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
whitewitch Posted March 15, 2015 Share Posted March 15, 2015 Just an update, I tried to discuss the issue a couple of times, and her response was that all was ok as it was, and discussing it a number of times was doing her head in. She was quite happy meeting 2/3 times a week to chat and hold hands, I was not. We have always chatted, most days, via messages, I went silent over a long weekend, and now she has gone almost silent for the past week +. So I guess we are finished Its time to move on, find someone who wants to spend time with you, been there & done that & i can honestly say im better off without him. Good luck in your future Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
skinz Posted March 15, 2015 Share Posted March 15, 2015 Ur a pussy. Almost as much of a pussy as skinz. Hockley is a legend. Same as me Alpha dogs stick together. Never had you down as gay ubermaus. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
The Joker Posted March 15, 2015 Share Posted March 15, 2015 Never had you down as gay ubermaus. Nah, I think ubermaus meant they sniff each others bums Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
newcomer01 Posted March 15, 2015 Share Posted March 15, 2015 Now she has gone almost silent suggests that there has been further communication,if so what was said? It seems to me that you both enjoy each others company,but she does want the end game. Surely the question has to be asked. What is the long term future? Don't just assume there is a problem with sex like others suggest,ask if there is a problem with sex! If she says that 2/3 days a week for meeting is o.k, then she has made it quite clear thats what she wants and that only. Have you ever stated to this person that you want more from this relationship.I know that I am stating the obvious,but there is no indication from you that this has happened.. If she wants friendship on this basis,I am sure that she is aware that you could potentially meet someone else and loose the friendship. Ultimately ,there are children involved here,and no matter what there is a possibility that seeing each other then stopping will affect them. Make sure that you spend quality time with your child,and take a look on some of the sites that have been suggested to you. That way you are having quality time with your child,keeping at least a friendship of sorts, but also looking for what I feel you are looking for. A friendship/relationship with the fringe benefits. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
skinz Posted March 15, 2015 Share Posted March 15, 2015 Nah, I think ubermaus meant they sniff each others bums Close call, for a moment I thort ee was weird. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
El Cid Posted March 15, 2015 Author Share Posted March 15, 2015 Now she has gone almost silent suggests that there has been further communication,if so what was said? It seems to me that you both enjoy each others company,but she does want the end game. Surely the question has to be asked. What is the long term future? I think people want closeness, if its the right person, but she is quite certain that she does not want more. The messages are just short, perhaps we both want each other, but I am not sure if I am wasting my time, as we had a real relationship for 3 months before christmas, its the moving backwards which has been difficult. Its just like being rejected. I can see us meeting for coffee again, maybe soon, maybe after a cooling off period. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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