aphradizzyak Posted April 25, 2006 Share Posted April 25, 2006 i have forgiven before and i think that it was the worst mistake that i ever made...you never forget someone breaking your trust like that and even if you want to it will always reappear in your mind at those times you are feeling low. In a perfect world you could understand peoples inperfections...but in a perfect world no inperfections would exist... its very hard to leave someone that you are in love with...but its easier to leave now rather than later when the issue has eaten away at your relationship. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
*Ryan* Posted April 25, 2006 Share Posted April 25, 2006 Erm im funny with the trust thing.. But on a general perspective, It would ust depend on the circumstances, who why etc And how much love was there.. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JayneRay Posted April 25, 2006 Share Posted April 25, 2006 Lol sorry... I'm just a firm believer that theres someone out there for everyone and if I'm with someone who cares that little about me to cheat on me and betray my trust, then they should be kicked to the kerb! Simple as! Cos that means that Mr Right is still out there, looking for me! Totally agree with you if he has done it once he'll do it again as the old saying goes. I notice most of these answers are from women. I have a friend who is trying to forgive her husband but can't until she has got even and sleeps with someone else, I personally can not understand this but each to their own. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
banesmabes Posted April 25, 2006 Share Posted April 25, 2006 No, I couldn't forgive and I would have to end it. You'd never be able to trust them again. A relationship without trust is hell. I once forgave a boyfriend for betraying my trust (he didn't cheat, but he blabbed to his family something very private about me, which (I thought) only he knew about). I'd never do it again. The relationship was never the same. Just as I was getting round to finally dumping him, he told me that unless I trusted him again he couldn't go on. Well, what did he expect?!? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
shirty30 Posted April 25, 2006 Share Posted April 25, 2006 I'd walk away, if I'm with a girl, I like to think she is with me because I am the one person she wants to be with. Cheating is just degrading. Can I give you my left yeah you probably still need your right eh? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lee_Blade Posted April 25, 2006 Share Posted April 25, 2006 don't think forgiveness would be an option for me! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Strix Posted April 25, 2006 Share Posted April 25, 2006 If you knew your partner had cheated o nyuo would you forgive them or would you walk away? I can cope with anything but lies. That means that I would be able to deal with the adultery, but if I found out myself, or it took months and months to come to light, it'd probably be the end (says she, who has had a man in her bedroom half this afternoon ) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sarah99 Posted April 25, 2006 Share Posted April 25, 2006 I'd walk, even if I wanted to stay I could never forget it and I'd be spending my time checking up on him all day n night which is no way to live. Id turn into a crazy suspicous (cant spell?!) person, I just know it!! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jimbob1989 Posted April 25, 2006 Share Posted April 25, 2006 yeah you probably still need your right eh? I'm a gent I tell thee Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MovingOn Posted April 25, 2006 Share Posted April 25, 2006 I think after I'd kicked him in the family jewels a couple of times I'd walk away. I have more self-esteem than to waste my time caring for someone who treats me with so little regard. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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