Would you forgive your cheating partner?

[Right]

I wouldnt be that bothered if i got to watch the vid

[daftlad]

if my wife ever cheated on me i would walk away, because the trust would not be there anymore. that said, we have celebrated our 24th wedding anniversary today, so must be doing something right

[x-GiGgLeS-x]

Another question is what exactly would you class as cheating?

[DragonofAna]

Walk away - or maybe not. The point is - it is easy to say you would or wouldn't until you are in that situation. If you really really love someone then walking away is not that easy. And just because the partner cheated once does not mean they will again. Sometimes people can learn by making mistakes.

 

I imagine I would want to forgive and try to move on, but probably I would have problems with it long term. No idea. Not been in that situation. Do not want to be in that situation.

[prettygirl]

i would walk away and would not take them back under any circumstances, once they have done it once they will do it again. a leopard never changes its spots.

[souldriver]

Not ever under any circumstances. been there and got the tshirt, although 'she' at the time said what she was doing couldn't be classed as cheating because she was sleeping with another woman, and not a man.

[gina2007]

Not ever under any circumstances. been there and got the tshirt, although 'she' at the time said what she was doing couldn't be classed as cheating because she was sleeping with another woman, and not a man.

 

Kinkaaaay ....

 

 

[CottonTop]

Been there, done that, and it was a big mistake. My ex-husband cheated on me and I forgave him. 10 years later the marriage was over anyway. The only positives are my two children, other than that it was a big waste of time.

[MonkeyLover]

I would never forgive a partner for cheating again.

I did forgive one time and my x did it again after forgiveing him the first time, so no i would not forgive anouther partner if they cheated again. I trust a person to a point now, but after been burned befor and the heart ake is not worth it for one person, the next time a partner does it to me i will just walk away like i did last time but i wont listen to the dribble to take him/her back.

 

Exactly how I feel. Many years ago, my husband (now my ex of course)cheated on me. I found out, we talked about it, and agreed that he would ditch her. After that, we lasted all of three weeks. The trust wasn't there, quite rightly i found out, because he was still carrying on with her.

 

If it ever happened with my present husband, he wouldn't stand a chance - I wouldn't make the same mistake again.

[Cat86]

No. I wouldnt want to live with someone who thought so little of me to look elsewhere. I'd never let it go.