desy Posted June 7, 2006 Share Posted June 7, 2006 They say that time heals wounds but. Would you like to get in contact with your ex husband /Wife/Partner. (To talk civilised) after all that time. Or do you still talk and have contact. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
martinC Posted June 7, 2006 Share Posted June 7, 2006 id rather eat broken glass than speak to my ex wife Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
medusa Posted June 7, 2006 Share Posted June 7, 2006 I can't wait for the day that I'm finally free of him and never have to have contact with him ever again. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Angeeee Posted June 7, 2006 Share Posted June 7, 2006 I'd like to speak to mine but only through a medium Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Plain Talker Posted June 7, 2006 Share Posted June 7, 2006 mine, too, angee... I have said that I want it written into my will, that my dying wish is that he be permitted to dance on my grave..... * * * * * * * * you see, I plan to be buried at sea...... :hihi: (Its' funny, cos, my ex Husband, I get on with him, absolutely fine! My ex partner, however... I wish him nothing but six feet of earth) PT Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
fox20thc Posted June 7, 2006 Share Posted June 7, 2006 Tend to see as little as possible of mine and grateful that its no more than that Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
peterw Posted June 7, 2006 Share Posted June 7, 2006 They say that time heals wounds but. Would you like to get in contact with your ex husband /Wife/Partner. (To talk civilised) after all that time. Or do you still talk and have contact. Not a good question for older folk, but I did get in contact with my first wife some 50-plus years after we divorced. We did talk civilly to each other after that long period apart, and I did enjoy seeing her and knowing that time is a good healing process for old wounds. Alas, she died recently — but the face I remember is not that of the elderly lady she became, but that of the lovely young girl I married all that long time ago. God bless you, Irene. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Halibut Posted June 7, 2006 Share Posted June 7, 2006 Not a good question for older folk, but I did get in contact with my first wife some 50-plus years after we divorced. We did talk civilly to each other after that long period apart, and I did enjoy seeing her and knowing that time is a good healing process for old wounds. Alas, she died recently — but the face I remember is not that of the elderly lady she became, but that of the lovely young girl I married all that long time ago. God bless you, Irene. peterw, how nice to see (and no critiscism implied to previous posters - I have a rather sad and disaffected relationship with my ex-partner) a member of the older generation expressing such a magnanimous and forgiving view. I hope I can be as generous and kind as you with the passage of time. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
skippy Posted June 8, 2006 Share Posted June 8, 2006 For some reason I thought divorce might run in our family after the divorces of my parents, sister & brother, so I was always a bit wary. I prayed for a nice girl & got an angel, after 41 years we are still together and enjoying life & each others company. I find forgiveness very hard, so don't think I would be able to trust anyone anymore if we had parted for whatever reason. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
pussinboots Posted June 9, 2006 Share Posted June 9, 2006 My first ex-husband, yes I would talk to him - my second, I would rather stick pins in my eyes. I never want to set eyes on him again. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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