The_DADDY Posted March 19, 2023 Share Posted March 19, 2023 It's a strange thing to ask I know but the subject recently came up where I was asked if sterilisation was a good idea. To be honest I had no idea if it was or not so declined to answer but it did get me thinking. The person is quite young so I suggested giving it a few years to see how she feels then but she seems adamant. No kids ever! My fear though is that she's adamant now but what if she regrets it? Can it be reversed or is it a decision that cannot be undone? Your (sensible) thoughts? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Axe Posted March 19, 2023 Share Posted March 19, 2023 4 minutes ago, The_DADDY said: It's a strange thing to ask I know but the subject recently came up where I was asked if sterilisation was a good idea. To be honest I had no idea if it was or not so declined to answer but it did get me thinking. The person is quite young so I suggested giving it a few years to see how she feels then but she seems adamant. No kids ever! My fear though is that she's adamant now but what if she regrets it? Can it be reversed or is it a decision that cannot be undone? Your (sensible) thoughts? My thoughts are you have too much time on your hands which enables you to do much thinking. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
The_DADDY Posted March 19, 2023 Author Share Posted March 19, 2023 2 minutes ago, Axe said: My thoughts are you have too much time on your hands which enables you to do much thinking. Where as you are rushed off your feet so have no time to do any? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest sibon Posted March 19, 2023 Share Posted March 19, 2023 13 minutes ago, The_DADDY said: Where as you are rushed off your feet so have no time to do any? It isn’t time that he lacks … Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
melthebell Posted March 19, 2023 Share Posted March 19, 2023 (edited) I had the snip rather than my missus being "done" after 2 kids, its easier and quicker for men to be reversed Edited March 19, 2023 by melthebell Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
pattricia Posted March 19, 2023 Share Posted March 19, 2023 My brother in law was a consultant surgeon at The Northern General. One of the sterilisations he did was vasectomies. Men didn’t seem upset about having it done, but some women who had abortions regretted it afterwards. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
melthebell Posted March 19, 2023 Share Posted March 19, 2023 35 minutes ago, pattricia said: My brother in law was a consultant surgeon at The Northern General. One of the sterilisations he did was vasectomies. Men didn’t seem upset about having it done, but some women who had abortions regretted it afterwards. Yeah its a simple procedure for men, it hurts a lil bit but not that bad, and easily reversed 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
hackey lad Posted March 19, 2023 Share Posted March 19, 2023 4 minutes ago, melthebell said: Yeah its a simple procedure for men, it hurts a lil bit but not that bad, and easily reversed It was a big job for me , they had to get McAlpines in to do the scaffolding . 2 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Becky B Posted March 19, 2023 Share Posted March 19, 2023 It's never been a question that's come up for me, having only been in the position where it might have been an issue for short periods... But I've never wanted children, and I think I'm at the age now where I might be considered to have "grown out of it" - (i.e. I am older and I haven't changed my mind...) I think it would take away some of the stresses of long-term contraception. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Padders Posted March 19, 2023 Share Posted March 19, 2023 2 hours ago, hackey lad said: It was a big job for me , they had to get McAlpines in to do the scaffolding . That's the second giggle you've given me today H. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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