slimsid2000 Posted August 4, 2006 Share Posted August 4, 2006 Am I the only person here who thinks it rather unfair that it is still (in 2006) expected that men must make the first move when meeting a potential partner? This, I feel, is particulary hard on shy men and those who do not really know what is expected of them. It is much worse being a shy man than a shy woman in my opinion. Your views please. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
fox20thc Posted August 4, 2006 Share Posted August 4, 2006 Stop being chicken Slim, if you don't ask you don't get. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SupraSteve Posted August 4, 2006 Share Posted August 4, 2006 Oh do stop going on this not being 'fair', or that not being 'fair' Slim - what in life is fair?!? You're in this world, get used to it or keep shying away from it - your choice. Did you watch the TV program last night, on how to chat to (and ultimately chat-up) women? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TimmyR Posted August 4, 2006 Share Posted August 4, 2006 seems fair to me. women got the bad deal I think. You know child birth, monthly cycles etc. <Expects barrage of assault from feminist types...> Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
blip Posted August 4, 2006 Share Posted August 4, 2006 Women often make the first move. Perhaps you just don't recognise when they're doing it? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
princessL83 Posted August 4, 2006 Share Posted August 4, 2006 I agree its unfair! My boyfriend is by NO means shy! When he met me he was a wreck- i made it easier on him I felt so sorry for him! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
slimsid2000 Posted August 4, 2006 Author Share Posted August 4, 2006 Women often make the first move. Perhaps you just don't recognise when they're doing it? Could you elaborate please. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Becci85 Posted August 4, 2006 Share Posted August 4, 2006 women tend to be a little more subtle when flirting, the twist of the hair.. flicker of the eye lids, the coy smile, and the odd touch as they're talking to you.. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
blip Posted August 4, 2006 Share Posted August 4, 2006 Could you elaborate please. Yes, Slimsid, I'd love to. Women tend to be a little more subtle when flirting, the twist of the hair.. flicker of the eye lids, the coy smile, and the odd touch as they're talking to you.. Apparently. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Till Man Posted August 4, 2006 Share Posted August 4, 2006 The thing is Sid, if a woman were to make the first move then a shy, nervous bloke like you would be scared off anyway, so that gains you what??? Some women will make the first move, but my guess is that they are not the type you would want anyhow. I have been picked up in a club in my single days by a girl introducing herself with the line "You're not going home tonight, you're coming with me" (and I dutifully obeyed, it would have been rude not to), but I feel from your posts that you are looking for something more than that. Best of luck Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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