mojo1 Posted August 1, 2007 Author Share Posted August 1, 2007 Me too! You had me worried there for a while, Mojo1 StarSparkle I like to keep you on your toes:D Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mojo1 Posted August 1, 2007 Author Share Posted August 1, 2007 There is no way to do it without hurting him really badly if he's as in love with her as he seems to be. I would recommend that she is honest and tells him that the relationship is not what she wants, and then makes sure that she leaves him with no shreds or half-promises to hang on to- it will only be worse if she's not emphatic and positive in her assertion to him. They work together and see each other every day, it's going to be really hard to make it a clean break Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
koenigsinger Posted August 1, 2007 Share Posted August 1, 2007 as difficult as it will be, she has to be blunt, direct and leave no room for false hope. Indicate that it is over. It will hurt the guy and that's unfortunate but he will get over it. The kids will be upset probably but that is down to their dad, he is the one who has to heal that hurt. hope she can move on and that they can all find happiness in the future. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
medusa Posted August 1, 2007 Share Posted August 1, 2007 They work together and see each other every day, it's going to be really hard to make it a clean break This is one of the reasons that dating a work colleague is a really bad idea (although I recognise that this statement is a fat lot of help once your friend is already in the position that she's in). I'd seriously consider changing jobs or moving departments if that's what it takes. In my opinion there is no easy or painless way of doing this- and half doing it, or risking giving him a reason to hope it will happen in the future, will only make things worse. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Agent Orange Posted August 1, 2007 Share Posted August 1, 2007 No danger of thet happening any time soon, thankfully:D You deserve better you cheeky chappy you:D Mega...... good job really. I would have been cross cos he seems like a nice chappy. Thanks, not sure who wants me Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mojo1 Posted August 1, 2007 Author Share Posted August 1, 2007 Mega...... good job really. I would have been cross cos he seems like a nice chappy. Thanks, not sure who wants me Bless ya, she'll be a lucky girl who ever she is:D Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Agent Orange Posted August 1, 2007 Share Posted August 1, 2007 Bless ya, she'll be a lucky girl who ever she is:D Erm, mad more like lol. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
koenigsinger Posted August 1, 2007 Share Posted August 1, 2007 Bless ya, she'll be a lucky girl who ever she is:D I'll echo that AO, you're a decent dude , just hold out for the one who will fully appreciate just how much of a catch you are Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Agent Orange Posted August 1, 2007 Share Posted August 1, 2007 Thanks for the compliments guys.... I'm just me Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
*_ash_* Posted August 2, 2007 Share Posted August 2, 2007 I was thinking that you and love monkey were parting ways Me too! You had me worried there for a while, Mojo1 StarSparkle Must admit, I thought the same. I did think heartless beeyatch! sorry mojo:) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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